I recently found the following two books while searching up different relationship therapists. Personally, I think these books are goldmines. The relationship therapist boasts a monster 83.6% Success Rate in getting couples back together. He’s created a book for men and a book for women - this is due to the psychology differences between the genders. I highly recommend checking out his books.
Men: ExGirlFriendGuru
Women: ExBoyFriendGuru
The majority of adults have gone through at least one break up in their lives. If you haven’t then:
A. You are lucky
B. You haven’t yet had a relationship.
For the rest - you know how painful it can be. It is even more painful when you truly thought that he or she was the one. The one person you could spend the rest of your life with… Then one day…*BAM* you get hit with the “We need to talk” phrase. One of the most gut wrenching phrases a man or women can hear. Read the rest of this entry »
One of the simplest tactics to follow when trying to win your ex back is using psychology. This does not mean placing guilt trips or using reasoning to get them to come back. Both males & females respond to different psychological methods. If this were not the case, then men would understand how to act around females and vice versa. What an easy life that would be, huh?
Isn’t it funny how the majority of females tend to stick around the “bad boy” types? Or how most men stick with the very feminine women. I’m in no way implying that you must act in a specific fashion to trigger reponses from the opposite sex - but deep down within those “bad boys” and special women, something is happening that is triggering psychological effects on their partner.
Here’s a funny question. How many psychology majors do you know that have trouble with men or women? The simple fact is - these men and women understand how to get responses from the opposite sex. Of course not everyone has time to goto school for four years to simply learn how to woo the other sex.
Luckily there are two crash course psychology books available for those people who want to understand not only how to get their ex back, but also how to trigger responses in the opposite sex.
These books come directly from a relationship therapist who specializes in fixing relationships and getting back together with your ex. Below are the book titles with links to pages you may view them.
For Men: ExGirlFriendGuru
For Women: ExBoyFriendGuru
I highly recommend checking these books out.
Did You Know?
After a break up, 9 times out of 10 every move you make to get your ex back is actually pushing them away further!
Here’s a list of the 7 Common Mistakes You CANNOT make.
- Acting Depressed - Do you think your ex will feel sorry for you? Think again.
- Being Too Nice - The last thing they want is you being too nice.
- Telling Your Ex You Will Change - We’ve all heard that one before.
- Buying Your Ex Gifts - You can’t buy love with gifts.
- Guilt Trips - This is the worst thing you can do.
- Ignoring Your Ex Completely - Ignoring a bit can help - however completely ignoring them is bad.
Avoiding these 7 common mistakes is only the tip of the iceberg. There is so much pyschology involved in relationships that it is very difficult to get it right on your own. The important thing to remember is that you need to take action NOW. The longer you wait - the more difficult it becomes to win your ex back.
Before you know it they will have another lover and you’ll be left in the dark.. I highly recommend you check out this guide to get all the information you need for getting your ex back.